wedding ceremony

Buying Art Supplies for Wedding Crafts by Vanessa Larkey

Over the weekend I got crafty. Well, kinda. 

I bought the art supplies that will eventually be used to make our table numbers, place settings etc. etc. And as I was perusing the aisles of Dollarama, Michael's and eventually Wal-Mart, I was reminded of the 'wedding tax' we ran into while looking at venues. 

10 place setting cards for $12. An envelope box for $60. I could go on, but it'll upset me too much. Instead, I'll go over how we saved a buck or two and eventually walked away with a bunch for stuff for $170. 

Make A List and Check It Twice

Before I hit the mall, I made a detailed list of everything we needed craft wise. I find making a list for any kind of shopping helps out big time. Personally, without a list I lose focus and forget what I've set out to buy, which means I start filling the cart with unnecessary and costly items. 

The Dollar Store   

When it comes to buying art supplies, a dollar store should be your first stop. Most have a huge selection, and if you can knock off most of your shopping list there there, do it. They have more than you'd think, too. Place card settings, table number holders, and glue guns. If you're in Ontario, Dollarama's are a great resource. Plus, they're clean and generally well stocked. 

Discount Stores

 I generally shy away from shopping at Wal-Mart because I disagree with their politics and employment practises, but sometimes, you need tea lights and they have the lowest price. Wal-mart also has a selection of art supplies, but like I mentioned previously, I'm not a fan of them politically and try to avoid spending my money with them. Plus, the dollar store has 'em beat on price when it comes to place card settings and markers. 

Art Stores

 If you're looking to save big on cash, the art store should be your last stop. I'd also suggest you avoid their wedding section. Sure, the stuff might be cutesy, but it's going to set your budget back big time. Instead, I'd suggest heading to the general art supply section and picking up any items you still need. When it comes to table numbers and place settings, remember, you can make a stencil of a shape you like, buy some nice paper, and make 'em yourself. 

All in all, my experience buying crafts made me very thankful for the Bunz trading app and Facebook group. Wedding supplies can be hella expensive, and it's great to know there is a community of people out there looking to trade for this stuff you'll only use once. 

*I tried to trade for tea lights on the Bunz App, but was too slow on multiple occasions. 

"OMG WE ARE GETTING MARRIED" MODE by Vanessa Larkey

There's nothing like meeting with your officiant to really snap you into "OMG we are getting married" mode. 

Sure, we've chosen our readings, but we haven't chosen who is actually reading them. Vows? I want to write my own, but isn't that an abstract duty for future Vanessa? No? Because we are getting married in 6 weeks? Right. Need to get on that. 

Luckily, we have an amazing officiant, Rita, who was able to ease us (read: me) when she sensed panic in our (read: my) voice. She reminded us that there still is lots of time, and really helped us craft a ceremony that is reflective of who we are as a couple. Long story short, if you're looking for an officiant for your wedding, I highly recommend Rita. Check out her website here

Another ceremony update that's kinda cool has to do with our wedding rings. Well, specifically Peter's wedding band. Last weekend we were doing a big clean and while going through some stuff, Peter found an old ring box that was given to him by his Grandparents. Inside was a gold wedding band that belonged to his Great-Great-Grandfather and namesake, Carl Petersen.

The ring is from 1898 and was crafted by a jeweler named Th. Halgreen in Copenhagen (where Carl Petersen was from). Peter tried it on and well, Peter and Petersen share more than a name, they share a ring size too. The band fit perfectly. 

We decided immediately that this would be Peter's wedding band. Not only is it sentimental, it was serendipitous that we came across the box at a time where we were discussing wedding bands. Also, using Carl's ring is economical, which definitely will help keep us on budget 😉